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Romance Autopsy Tarot Spread

Sometimes even the most loving relationships hit major roadblocks. This spread acts like a relationship MRI, revealing underlying causes, pinpointing areas for improvement, and helping you decide whether to repair or walk away.

Why This Spread?

The Romance Autopsy spread is a brutally honest diagnostic tool for those gut-wrenching moments when your relationship hits a critical fork in the road. It pinpoints hidden conflicts and misaligned needs, offering clarity about whether the relationship is worth repairing or if it's time to move on. This spread is ideal for those seeking clarity during challenging times in their relationships.

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Romance Autopsy Tarot Spread Breakdown:

Card 1: Current State – The core problem causing distress within your relationship.

Card 2: Unseen Factors – Hidden issues or dynamics contributing to the situation.

Card 3: Your Needs – What you require from this relationship to feel fulfilled.

Card 4: Partner's Needs – Their needs and whether they are currently being met.

Card 5: Communication Gaps – Ways you might improve dialogue and resolve misunderstandings.

Card 6: Deeper Connection – Ways to deepen the relationship bond.

Card 7: The Path Ahead – Potential for improvement and steps towards a healthier dynamic.

When to Use a Tarot Spread for Relationship Challenges

The Romance Autopsy spread is designed for moments when a relationship is struggling or has recently ended. If you’re facing deep conflicts, communication breakdowns, or feel uncertain about the relationship’s future, this spread offers clarity on underlying issues. It’s ideal for anyone wanting an honest look at what went wrong and guidance on whether to rebuild, let go, or focus on self-healing after a breakup.

Questions to Ask After a Breakup or During Relationship Crises

What unresolved issues contributed to the breakdown of this relationship?

What unmet needs or hidden expectations might have impacted our connection?

What steps can I take to heal and rebuild after this relationship’s challenges?

Affirmations & Intentions for Healing and Moving Forward

"I am open to healing and understanding the lessons from this relationship."

"I release past hurt and focus on rebuilding my sense of self-worth."

"I trust that this experience is part of my journey toward deeper love and understanding."

Journaling Prompts for Processing Relationship Endings

Reflect on what this relationship taught you about yourself: What did you learn about your needs, values, and boundaries?

Identify any patterns or behaviours that you would like to address or change before your next relationship.

Consider how this experience can guide you toward a more fulfilling connection in the future. What qualities do you seek in yourself and others?

Tips for Reflecting After a Breakup or Relationship Challenge

Reflect on what this relationship taught you about yourself: What did you learn about your needs, values, and boundaries?

Engage in Honest Reflection – Examine what worked and what didn’t without self-judgment. Reflection helps you approach future relationships with clarity.

Consider Professional Support – Seeking therapy or counseling can provide tools for processing past relationship dynamics and building healthier future connections.

Why a Relationship Crisis Tarot Spread is Ideal for Healing

When relationships face significant challenges or come to an end, understanding what went wrong can be difficult but crucial for healing. A relationship crisis tarot spread, like the Romance Autopsy, helps you process emotions, see hidden issues, and gain clarity on whether the relationship is worth repairing. Tarot provides an unbiased mirror, offering insights into underlying conflicts, unmet needs, and the best path forward—be it rebuilding or letting go.

Navigating Heartbreak and Understanding Relationship Lessons

This spread encourages you to confront the truth about what went wrong while honouring the lessons gained from the experience. Each card reflects the complexities of relationships, helping you see both strengths and areas needing improvement. With this insight, you can heal, rebuild, and ultimately grow stronger, whether you choose to repair the relationship or focus on self-growth.

Key Focus Areas for Processing a Relationship Crisis

One key focus is understanding the root causes behind the issues or breakup. Cards like "Current State" and "Unseen Factors" provide insight into core challenges that may have been overlooked, offering a more complete picture of the relationship’s dynamics.

This spread also encourages you to identify and honour your personal needs. Cards such as "Your Needs" and "Partner’s Needs" help you understand where both parties may have felt unfulfilled or disconnected, offering clarity on what each person required to feel valued and supported.

Finally, the spread provides direction for the path ahead. With cards like "Communication Gaps" and "The Path Ahead," you’re guided to take actionable steps, whether to improve dialogue, create a healthier connection, or choose healing and self-focus post-breakup. This clarity allows you to move forward with renewed purpose.

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