My Approach to Tarot Reading
I do not sugarcoat. We use the cards to work out what is actually going on, name the pattern sitting underneath it, and figure out what you want to do about that. I will not tell you what happens next, because I do not know. What I can do is help you understand where you are actually standing, and that is the part that changes anything.
The Three Things I Say at the Start of Every Reading
Every reading opens the same way. Three things, then a short meditation, then we begin. They are most of the reason people come back, so you may as well read them before you book.
I make no claim to know what happens next
If you are looking for certainty, you have come to the wrong person. I do not even want to claim that I am here to give you hope. I am here to help you understand your current situation so you can take control of it. Sometimes that means empowering you, and sometimes empowering you means a reality check rather than a comforting story. I would rather give you the real one.
I will not sugarcoat, and I will not be cruel about it
I am not going to pretend things are fine when they are not, or that everything is a disaster when it is actually alright. If there is something hard to say, I will say it in the kindest way I have got. And if a card changes meaning halfway through because of what comes out after it, I will tell you that rather than pretend I had it right first time.
If it does not make sense, say so
This is the one people remember. My ego can handle it. I grew up in London, I have been in Manchester ten years, I am neurodivergent, and I read for people all over the world. Sometimes a thing makes perfect sense in my head and nowhere else, and there are cultural, generational and class gaps running in every direction. You should never sit there nodding along at something that did not land.
That covers getting your pronouns wrong too. Tell me and I will fix it, and we carry on.
If a reading genuinely did not make sense, say so during the session and we will sort it out between us. Not liking what you heard is a different thing, and I will be honest with you about which one I think it was.
What Actually Happens in a Reading
I will set the scene, and we start with a short meditation to get you out of your day and into the room.
Then I pull cards in threes and we talk through what is coming up. I do not usually work to a set spread. I draw in small groups and follow what turns up, and a named spread only really happens with regulars or when somebody asks for one when they book.
You set the pace. Some people hear a card, say yes that tracks, and we move on. Other people spend half a session on one card. Both are fine, because you are paying for my time rather than for a number of cards.
Tarot works best when we let it focus on one situation, or one question. Two can work. Four areas gets confusing and I do not vibe with it. Plenty of people turn up with two things, we read one of them properly, and they leave happy with that.
Towards the end I draw oracle cards to land it. Then I ask how you feel, whether you have any more questions, and whether the reading was actually helpful. That last one matters most to me. A yes ends it. A no, or a hedge, and I want to know why, which is why I leave a buffer at the end instead of running you to the second.
The Room You Will Be Sitting In
Everything happens in one room. In-person readings, Zoom readings, teaching, recording. It is my space and it is set up the way I like it.
There are books everywhere. Philosophy, Christian theology, deconstruction, radical theology, pyrotheology, Buddhism, tarot, and a bit of astrology and witchcraft. Most of them are unread, if I am honest, but there are a few I love. There is an old tape deck, crystals, sound healing instruments, drums, and trinkets I have picked up from around the world. There are usually essential oils going and the lighting is moody on purpose.
You sit on the sofa. I sit in my armchair. The computer is in the corner, which is where the Zoom readings and the teaching happen from.
It is a working space and I would rather say so than pretend otherwise. I keep it as tidy and clean as I can, but there may well be a big recording light, a tripod, a microphone rig or podcast gear sitting in the corner. That is what a room looks like when somebody actually works in it.
Who This Works For
This works best if:
- You want guidance, not someone telling you your fate is sealed
- You’re sceptical but willing to try something that might actually help
- You’re navigating change, burnout, breakups, career shit, or just feeling stuck
- You want a space where you don’t have to explain or justify who you are
Many of my clients are neurodivergent, queer, or both. Not because I market to those groups specifically, but because those communities tend to value honesty over performance. If that’s you, you’ll probably feel at home here.
What I Won’t Do
- Predict a fixed future or give death dates
- Diagnose health or replace medical, legal, or financial advice
- Spy on third parties without consent
- Scare, shame, or tell you what to do
These aren’t arbitrary rules. They’re boundaries that keep readings helpful instead of manipulative.
Ethics And Boundaries
- Consent first. I check before we look at sensitive topics, and you can pause or stop any time
- Confidentiality. Your reading stays private
- Age 18+
- Trauma-aware, LGBTQ+ inclusive language as standard
You can read my full ethics policy here: Ethical Tarot Readings.
Sceptics Welcome
You don’t need to believe in anything for this to work. Think of the cards as a mirror and the reading as a structured conversation. If something doesn’t land, we say so and look again. The point is clarity, not forcing meaning.
In Person Or Online
- Manchester. I read in person at my home reading space.
- Online worldwide. Zoom sessions use the same structure and care
Before You Book
- A focused, open-ended question helps, but if you don’t have one, we’ll find it together
- Give yourself five minutes to settle before we start
- If you like prep, read: How to Prepare for a Tarot Reading
After Your Reading
- Take a photo or jot down what landed so you remember
- Give yourself space before making big decisions
- If you want structure, read: What to Do After a Tarot Reading
Readings are paid for when you book, whichever one you pick. If you are booking online, the times you see are in your own time zone rather than mine, and your location is shown above the calendar so you can check it before you choose a slot.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you use reversals?
Sometimes. If reversals add something useful, I use them. If they just create noise, I don’t. I’ll check what you prefer at the start and stick with that for the session.
Will you tell me bad news?
I’ll tell you the truth. If something difficult shows up, we name it, face it, and work out what you can actually do about it. You won’t leave feeling spooked or helpless. You’ll leave knowing what’s going on and what your next step is.
Can you read about other people?
Not without boundaries. I don’t pry into someone else’s private life. We focus on your choices and your side of things. So instead of “What are they thinking about me?” we’d ask “What do I need to know about this dynamic and what’s my best move?” Instead of “Will they come back?” it’s “What’s my most compassionate path forward and what will help me heal?”
Do I need to be spiritual or believe in tarot?
No. Just bring curiosity and honesty. Treat the cards like a mirror and the reading like a conversation that helps you think through what’s actually going on.
How long are sessions and how do I choose?
There are four lengths and you are choosing time, not a type of reading. Anything under half an hour is a taster. Thirty minutes suits one clear topic. Forty five gives us room to sit with it properly rather than rushing the end. An hour is for going deep on one situation, or two if you need it. The prices and what each one covers are on the booking page.
What spreads do you use?
Usually none. I pull cards in threes and follow what comes up, and if something needs more detail I pull clarifiers. A named spread only really happens with regulars, or when somebody asks for one when they book. You do not have to choose a spread and you do not have to know any.
Can tarot predict the future?
I don’t claim to predict the future because it’s not helpful. If I told you that in six weeks someone in a brown suit would hand you a million quid, you’d spend those weeks scanning for brown suits. The future isn’t fixed. Tarot helps you see what’s under the surface so you can make better decisions and shape what comes next. It doesn’t predict your future. It helps you create it.
What if a topic feels sensitive or triggering?
We slow down. I check consent before going further, and you can pause or stop any time. If a topic isn’t suited to tarot, I’ll say so and suggest safer ways to approach it. Care comes first.
What should I do before and after?
Before: bring a clear question if you can, give yourself a few minutes to settle. After: take a moment before making big decisions, review your notes in a day or two, notice what still resonates. If you want more structure, I’ve got guides on preparing and what to do after a reading.
How confidential is the reading?
Sessions are private. I don’t share details outside the session. If you need written notes for yourself, I can give you a brief summary.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Do you use reversals?
Sometimes. If reversals add something useful, I use them. If they just create noise, I don’t. I’ll check what you prefer at the start and stick with that for the session.
Will you tell me bad news?
I’ll tell you the truth. If something difficult shows up, we name it, face it, and work out what you can actually do about it. You won’t leave feeling spooked or helpless. You’ll leave knowing what’s going on and what your next step is.
Can you read about other people?
Not without boundaries. I don’t pry into someone else’s private life. We focus on your choices and your side of things. So instead of “What are they thinking about me?” we’d ask “What do I need to know about this dynamic and what’s my best move?” Instead of “Will they come back?” it’s “What’s my most compassionate path forward and what will help me heal?”
Do I need to be spiritual or believe in tarot?
No. Just bring curiosity and honesty. Treat the cards like a mirror and the reading like a conversation that helps you think through what’s actually going on.
How long are sessions and how do I choose?
There are four lengths and you are choosing time, not a type of reading. Anything under half an hour is a taster. Thirty minutes suits one clear topic. Forty five gives us room to sit with it properly rather than rushing the end. An hour is for going deep on one situation, or two if you need it. The prices and what each one covers are on the booking page.
What spreads do you use?
Usually none. I pull cards in threes and follow what comes up, and if something needs more detail I pull clarifiers. A named spread only really happens with regulars, or when somebody asks for one when they book. You do not have to choose a spread and you do not have to know any.
Can tarot predict the future?
I don’t claim to predict the future because it’s not helpful. If I told you that in six weeks someone in a brown suit would hand you a million quid, you’d spend those weeks scanning for brown suits. The future isn’t fixed. Tarot helps you see what’s under the surface so you can make better decisions and shape what comes next. It doesn’t predict your future. It helps you create it.
What if a topic feels sensitive or triggering?
We slow down. I check consent before going further, and you can pause or stop any time. If a topic isn’t suited to tarot, I’ll say so and suggest safer ways to approach it. Care comes first.
What should I do before and after?
Before: bring a clear question if you can, give yourself a few minutes to settle. After: take a moment before making big decisions, review your notes in a day or two, notice what still resonates. If you want more structure, I’ve got guides on preparing and what to do after a reading.
How confidential is the reading?
Sessions are private. I don’t share details outside the session. If you need written notes for yourself, I can give you a brief summary.
